Cat's Pajamas
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  • holes 2003 truly did it all.... the tackling of the prison industrial complex done in a way that was appropriate and understandable for kids while also pulling no punches...,, the full cast of well written kids of color... the drama, romance, and mystery to keep it fresh while also handling the heavy focus of racism.. the seamless weaving of the a and b plots... sigourney weaver looking like That. cinemas finest.

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  • I think if I had serious depression and my doctor told me to go see a funny clown instead of helping me get therapy or medication I would be really upset even if I didn't, through an ironic twist of fate, turn out to actually be the clown myself.

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  • ovenroastedtwerkey

    Another example of how statistics are the Devil, and one must always be vigilant as to whether a claim of averages is referring to mean, median, or mode.

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  • i’m “the petrol of sun of flowers” 

  • not wearing a labcoat so the other scientists know im a whore

  • lakevida

    only wearing a labcoat so the other scientists know i’m a whore

  • hyperactivehedgehog

    kicking both of you out of the lab because someone's gotta uphold lab safety rules

  • salkryn

    It’s called the foot-in-the-door method. First, you propose something that is slightly outside of allowable norms: denying gay people wedding cakes on grounds of “religious freedom”. Then, you slowly ramp up how extreme your demands are, coercing the other side to giving a tiny bit of ground each time, until you’ve shifted the entire fucking playing field. Conservatives are also very fond of the door-to-face method, which is demanding something completely outlandish that you know will be refused, and then asking for something less ridiculous by way of compromise, again resulting in a gradual shift in norms until views that were once considered moderate or reasonable become unthinkably liberal by destroying people’s sense of standards. The combination of these methods is called the “foot-in-the-face” method, which sums up where this whole thing is headed quite nicely.


    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Door-in-the-face_technique

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Foot-in-the-door_technique

  • unthrifty--loveliness

    Hey remember how you guys kept saying “why not just go to another bakery”? 

  • sushigal007

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  • Anyway adults saying “I don’t know isn’t an answer” is part of the reason I learned to lie and bluff so well.

  • logical-crow

    Really though, what was that about? I don’t know is a valid answer. It communicates very clearly that the child cannot answer your question, and therefore maybe needs more help understanding the question/situation. Why do you try and push them to give an answer they don’t have? That stresses them out and it makes them feel like they’re being punished for not knowing something.

  • logically-asexual

    i thought i was the only one with an “i don’t know” problem because my parents made it seem it was the strangest and also most horrible thing in the world. i genuinely didn’t know and they got angry and that only blocked my thoughts more which meant i didn’t know the answer to anything else.

  • erytria

    THIS ^^^

  • sproutnabt

    Also “I don’t know” is a commonly used sentence for children with ADHD/Autism. We DON’T know why we can’t do our homework. We DON’T know why we can’t eat certain foods sometimes. We DON’T know why we forgot to do a chore. It’s really distressing when you genuinely don’t know and people think you’re just lying or indifferent